Words: Matthew Godden (pictured right) and Peter Blandin (pictured left)
As we approach the new year we may take stock: of our jobs, our health, our homes and of our relationships. Whilst the island is covered in Christmas trees and lit up with fairy lights, some couples may decide that it’s time for a new beginning as the New Year approaches.
Family Law isn’t just about divorce papers and courtroom conflicts. It’s about helping parties to navigate change – sometimes heartbreaking, sometimes liberating – with compassion and clarity. As the year wraps up, people may reflect on what’s working for them and what’s not. For some that means having difficult conversations about separation, parenting or finances.
Family Law is about providing advice and support for separating couples to guide them as to how best to reach an agreement by minimising animosity and expense. There are many non-court dispute resolution options out there that can help couples find common ground without the bitterness of a Court battle. Parenting agreements can provide stability for children when everything else feels uncertain. Pre-nuptial agreements, which are understandably viewed by many as unromantic, can set clear expectations as to the division of finances in the event of divorce (although the hope and intention is a pre-nuptial agreement is never needed).
So, as the new year begins, if you find yourself in the position where you need legal advice and guidance on a relationship breakdown, just have in mind that it doesn’t have to mean conflict and bitterness. It doesn’t have to mean a contested, costly Court hearing. It is possible to start a new chapter by having a “good divorce” which minimises conflict and emotional damage, enabling both parties to build a positive future.
If you want advise on any family law issue or wish to know about the fixed fee packages that Le Gallais & Luce offer, please contact Matthew Godden or Peter Blandin at family@lgl.je or by phone on 01534 760760.
